Cognitive Insights

Hi guys, it has come again that I want to talk about one kind of topic that is very important for our life. We call it "Conflict Resolution". It may be that you’ve entered one kind of situation before that you don’t know how to resolve. It could be family matters, relationship matters, or even workplace matters. It could even be that you and your neighbor are fighting over a land matter. Don’t worry, I will try to explain what conflict resolution is and how you can resolve it in a better way. What is Conflict Resolution? Conflict resolution is one kind of process that people can use to settle matters or problems that they are facing. This matter could be two people arguing or fighting, or even one person being angry with another person because of something the other person did. The main thing that is important is to find a solution to the matter on the ground, so that everyone can be happy and the matter no longer causes problems. How can you resolve Conflict? Let me tell you...

What are communication skills? They are the ways we walk and talk to people to make sure we relate well. This skill is not only for the workplace, but for everyday life. It can mean that we can understand people talking to us and we can explain our own self without difficulty. For us to have better communication skills, we’ll need to know certain kinds of things. One is the way we talk. We will need to speak clearly and calmly, so people can hear what we are saying. It doesn’t make sense if we speak too fast or too low. We will also need to know the words we use, so we don’t come saying things that will confuse people. Another thing we’ll need to know is to listen. It doesn’t make sense if we’re always talking and not hearing what people are saying. We will need to take time to listen to what they are saying and to ask questions if we don’t understand. This will show that we are interested in what they are saying. We'll also need to know body language. This one is the way we use ou...

Hello people! Today, we are going to talk about how to build better relationships. It is important something that we all suppose to know so that we can have peace and happiness in our lives. First and foremost, let’s know what a relationship is. A relationship is the way two or more people relate to each other. It could be friendship, love relationship or family relationship. To build healthy relationships, we must be mindful of communicating with the person we’re relating to. It doesn’t make sense to be angry or form saying we won’t talk to the person because of a small quarrel. If we have an issue, let’s talk it out, hear what the person wants to say and also let’s talk our own. We can also ask for forgiveness if we offend the person and forgive the person if they offend us. Another important thing is trust. It can be hard to trust people sometimes but we suppose try to trust the person we are relating to. We are suppose to believe that they are not going to do us any harm or cheat u...

Let me tell you something, there is one skill that people use to convince other people to do what they want. It can be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on how one takes to use it. If you know how the human brain works and what makes people do what you want them to do, you can learn how to get people to do anything you want them to do. I want to give you 15 ways you can use convincing someone for this article. Some of them can be manipulative, but use them well. 1- Reciprocity Norm: If you do a person a favor, they will feel that they must do you a favor back. 2- Chameleon Effect: If you copy someone's body language, they will like you very well. 3- Avoid long talk: If you talk too much, people will get tired. Focus on one or two main points. 4- Start small: If you want to ask someone for a big favor, start with a small one first, so they can help you more later. 5- Status: If a person has a title like doctor or professor, use it to call them. And call them by their name too. ...

  8 psychological reasons that make you attractive Please, have you ever thought about what makes some people beautiful or what makes people see you as beautiful? There are some psychological reasons that explain why people find you fine and you might be surprised that it’s not just based on physical fine looks. 1- Your scent Have you ever carried your partner’s favorite jacket before? Have you ever reasoned why it means so much to you and why it reminds you of them? It turns out that their natural scent plays a big role in their fine looks. Some kinds of smells can bring back important memories, but the sense of smell also involves the type of hormone called pheromones. According to one research done in 2013, we don’t know the entire role of pheromones for the human body, but we do know that it is connected to both the olfactory system and partner selection. Essentially, this one means that the smell of certain chemicals that your body gives off - often through sweat - can make yo...

  7 signs you may be with the wrong person   All men who date or want to date have doubts sometimes. It’s natural to ask yourself whether the person you’re with is the right person or not. So, are you worried about nothing or is there really something wrong with the relationship? One: If you're always unhappy: Remember that loving relationships are supposed to be enjoyable very well. If you’re always unhappy in the relationship, it could be that you’re with the wrong person. Especially if you’re unhappy even when you’re together or going on dates. Two: If you are always stressed: Apart from being unhappy, relationships can also be stressful. It’s natural to worry about your relationship from time to time, but if the stress is too much, it could mean something is wrong. Ask yourself whether the relationship is making you feel relaxed or causing anxiety and worry. Three: If your expectations aren’t met: Everyone has their own vision of the perfect partner they want, but it’s not...

  5 signs that tell you when it's time to leave a relationship   Relationships can have kind of trouble, it’s sweet when it’s going well but if something happens and you find yourselves in one kind of trouble, it’s going to hurt. If you have been with someone for a long time, you can do a routine that will make you no longer notice what they are doing because it has become a normal thing for you. Looking at it from another angle can help you gain a sense of what’s going on in your relationship. No perfect relationship. Even the people who are happy enough to eat their mouths off will still have quarrels, disagreements and break ups. That's what life is like! But sometimes you’ll need to look at your relationship without any unnecessary stories in your eyes so you can see if those little quarrels  you’re having are escalating into bigger problems. Sometimes you’ll need to leave that kind of relationship and put yourself first in order to be happy. You’re always unhappy: An...