Hi guys, it has come again that I want to talk about one kind of topic that is very important for our life. We call it "Conflict Resolution". It may be that you’ve entered one kind of situation before that you don’t know how to resolve. It could be family matters, relationship matters, or even workplace matters. It could even be that you and your neighbor are fighting over a land matter. Don’t worry, I will try to explain what conflict resolution is and how you can resolve it in a better way.
What is Conflict Resolution?
Conflict resolution is one kind of process that people can use to settle matters or problems that they are facing. This matter could be two people arguing or fighting, or even one person being angry with another person because of something the other person did. The main thing that is important is to find a solution to the matter on the ground, so that everyone can be happy and the matter no longer causes problems.
How can you resolve Conflict?
Let me tell you some kind steps that you can follow to resolve conflict. First thing you can do is calm down. It doesn’t make sense to be shouting and angry. Please try to take a deep breath and relax a little. When you’ve calmed down, you can talk to the person you’re having a problem with. Talk to him in a gentle way and let him explain how you feel. Don't use words that will make matters worse.
Another thing that will help is to listen to what the other person is saying. Try to understand their own point of view. It may be that you don’t know what their concerns are and it may be that their own point of view would make sense. When you have listened to their own point of view, you can also explain your own side of the matter.
When you have said everything you want to say, try to find a solution to the matter. It’s possible that you can reach a compromise or agreement that makes everyone happy. It may be that one person will have to compromise more than the other, but the main thing that matters is finding a solution that works for everyone.
Lastly, forgive each other. It doesn't make sense to settle a matter and you won't forgive anyone. It’s only going to make matters worse if you don’t forgive. Forgiveness is one kind of medicine that will help heal the wound in the matter.
Why is it important that we know Conflict Resolution?
It’s important that we know conflict resolution because it will help us in our relationships with people. No one can live in this world alone, and as we interact with people, there will come a time when we will have a problem with someone. If we don’t know how to resolve matter, it can cause a lot of problems in our life. But if we know how to resolve matter peacefully, it will make our lives better.
So, let’s practice conflict resolution in our lives. Let’s not be quick to anger and shout. Instead let’s calm down and try to find a solution that works for everyone. That’s how we can live a better life for this world.